The Crisp Guy Blog – Leadership, Resilience & Culture

The Stripped Back Journal

This is where I lay it bare. Silence, betrayal, survival, and rebuilding — told as it happened. Not theory. Not Polish. Just real stories stripped back to the truth over the last 37 years as a small business owner.

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My Door Was Always Open… But Nobody Knocked

I used to say, “My door is always open.”

But the truth was, nobody knocked.
They thought I was too busy — and I ended up being the last to know about problems, issues, even good news.

It wasn’t until I plastered “Be Present” stickers around my desk and made myself a promise — to stop whatever I was doing when someone came in — that the culture began to change.

Because culture isn’t built in strategy sessions.
It’s built in the knock on the door.

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When My Oura Ring Knew Before I Did…

The morning of my first talk in three years, my Oura Ring flashed a stress warning I’d never seen before. It was right — I was nervous. But what happened next showed me something bigger: stress means the moment matters, and sharing the truth creates real connection.

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Vulnerability Is a Superpower — Why I Go First

For years I wore the mask of “strong leadership.” I thought vulnerability was weakness.
But the truth is, vulnerability is leadership.

When I finally stopped hiding, something unexpected happened: people opened up too. They told me my honesty gave them hope, permission, and courage.

👉 Vulnerability isn’t weakness — it’s a superpower.

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👉 The Silence Ended: Finding Clarity After Three Years

After nearly four years in silence, something finally switched back on. In this video, I share the moment my clarity, purpose, and hope returned — just 37 hours after David Carr’s sentencing. Vulnerability isn’t weakness. It’s the moment people finally see the real you.

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What Could Your Fred (Liz) Factor Moment Be?

A nurse with a purple rose. A postman who went the extra mile. What do they have in common? They both remind us that small, thoughtful acts can leave the biggest mark. The question is: what could your Fred (Liz) Factor moment be?

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The Crisp Guy – Where It All Began

The name ‘Crisp Guy’ might sound odd, but it came from a moment that completely changed how I saw leadership. What started with an empty crisp packet outside my office door turned into a wake-up call about culture, accountability, and what ‘good’ really looks like. That one story reshaped my business — and me as a leader.

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Are We There Yet?

Running a business can feel like a long car journey — full of delays, distractions, and “are we there yet?” moments. The truth is, the journey itself is where the real lessons (and future greatness) come from.

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How Not to Lose Staff… Train Them?

For years, I thought training staff was a waste — they’d just leave or ask for more money. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Here’s why investing in your people is the smartest move you’ll ever make as a business owner.

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Monitoring the Mood

"Running a business isn’t just about targets and cash flow — it’s about people. And sometimes, the hardest person to manage is yourself. Here’s how tracking my mood changed everything, and why it could help your team too."

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